Archive for December 2009

3 Stages To Heal Your Broken Heart

December 28, 2009

Have you ever been heart broken before? I mean real heart broken, the one that makes you lose appetite, the one that gives you sleepless nights, convincingly turning you into a shadow of yourself…?

you think the whole world has come to an end. If you have traveled through these periods of trauma you will understand how painful, frustrating, and sad it made you feel.

Many heat broken persons find it so hard to get their life back together because of the pains associated with broken relationship. the causes of the subject matter itself has been dealt with extensively by experience coaches in relationship matters, but little has been literally said about the stages to heal a broken heart.

Here are the stages to your healing

The first task you need to embark on your healing process is

To admit it has happened!.

Do you really want to heal? Then you need to forget the past and accept the reality, accepting the reality means you will not hear from, speak, or communicate one way or another, to your once sweet heart. At least for a while..

If you decide that probably there is still a chance somewhere, someday, living in a fools paradise; then what you will experience is sheer disappointment. and your heart will only continue to suffer.

But when you come in term with the fact that your partner is not going to share your bed, and especially your heart anymore only then will your heart submit to healing.

The next stage in your healing process after admitting the separation is not to do what others in your shoes would have done and that is locking themselves up somewhere in their rooms and just moose over the romance. at times contemplating suicide at times murder.

Now what you do is open all your window blinds and let sunshine in, then go out very more often, meet your old friend, go out to movies together, hang out with them more often, if you are lucky enough to have a friend that is funny then you are better for it.

When you hang out more with your friends the minutes and hours you would have wasted if you were to be at home all locked up in your room thinking about your lose is spent happily with your friends.

The last stage I want to mention here is after you have admitted that your relationship is broken, you use the opportunity to meet with old friends [not relatives] definitely you will meet new friends, when you make new friend you are more matured and careful to go into another relationship, but hey you need to get into a relationship one day then why not now.

So make lots of friend and find yourself a new romance. there are many of them out there who are also looking forward to getting into a relationship with you all you have to do is accept you need a new relationship with someone else.

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3 Super Tips To Stop The Break Up

December 25, 2009

Do you know of any super tips to stop your break up?

 

 

Do you know why break up happen in relationship?

 

 

If only you knew enough you will agree with me the reason why break up happen in most of the cases is because we do not tap into the huge potential of ideas and experiences all around us

 

 

The first super tip I’m revealing here today is something you heard so much about, yet you find so impossible to do….

 

 

Caring.

What is caring?

One of the problem we face during our periods of courtship is, “what we value so high in our life can suddenly becomes almost nothing the moment we have gotten it”.

 

 

During courtship the fire is ever burning to love more, but after some few months into partnership, the marriage boat suddenly start to rock

 

 

One good reason a woman will see a relationship through is that he believe the other partner cared enough. You see, when you make your woman see how much you really care, the thought of break up or leaving will never really come up.

 

 

 

Communication

Show me a home the man hardly speaks to his wife and i will show you a home about to collapse.

 

 

If you have good flow of communication among the two of you, you know, speak the way like the day you first met, eagerly waiting to be heard and quickly recognizing when to say “I’m sorry”

 

 

Then your road map to a happy home is guaranteed!

 

Communication is the foundation to a healthy home. It will amaze you that close to 97% of breakups either in marriages or during courtship are caused by lack of genuine communication between the couples.

 

 

The last 3 super tips to stop a break up is finance. I do not care what peoples opinion is on this last tips but one thing that is clear to me is that “there is no romance without finance”.

 

 

Whatever you do, if truly you want to make your woman to be happy and stay with you to the end especially during your trial time you must have money.

 

 

People especially women love being spent on. buying them things like gift, take them out for dinner, have some few dollars left for their salon are some of the tips that can save your relationship from break up.

 

 

but if economic meltdown suddenly melt down your pocket then there is fire on the mountain. Most of the women out there dont care how you go about getting it but GET IT!

 

 

 

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The Do’s And Don’t In Your First Date

December 20, 2009

Going out on your first date can be brain tasking, especially if it happens to be your first date with your new partner.

You just want to get everything right; you want to create the gentleman’s perfect status and leave a lasting impression on your date.

But there are some things that can make a perfectly planned date to become such a horrible nightmare and such things are the DONTS in your first date.

One of the don’ts in a first date is NEVER keep your date waiting! getting late to a pre-arranged meeting can be counter productive for the both of you .what your late coming tells about you is that you are irresponsible

If you could keep your date constantly glancing at the wall clock every single seconds what you have done is to create an atmosphere that is uncondusive for you and your partner.

But the other way round can be very rewarding, in that, it gives you an opportunity to think about How, and What you are going to do if your partner shows up. coming to a date 5-10 minutes before a scheduled meeting gives you an edge and also calm your nerves.

Another attitude you must not exhibit is the way you apologize on your first date. when you apologise to every mistake you make it only tell your partner that you are not a confident man

No I’m not saying you shouldn’t apologize, if the need is necessary, you just have to [remember you are a gentleman] but just because its your first date with her and you want to leave a lasting impression of Mr. nice guy does not mean you have to apologise all the way through your meeting.

What most women want during their first date are men and not boys. A man that can take control of good or ugly situations. A man that can turn mistakes into opportunity.

When you talk too much about yourself on your first date it kills the satisfaction you could have gotten from getting to know her more. You don’t want your whole profile read on one single evening!

Say a little about yourself and you do the listening. let her do the talking. When you go on and on to talk about how and where you where born, to the best car your father ever rode, and why your mom has to change her name from Cordelier to cordy, you are really killing the chance of knowing who your partner really is

So what you should do in your first date is to take charge of the situation by asking good and relevant questions. make her do the talking while you do the listening.

Remember the cliché “the man with the question is in control”

Another don’t in your first outing with your new girl is NEVER dress shabbily. Your appearance on your first date matters a lot, if you want to have a repeated date with your woman create an impression with the way you dress

If you keep the do’s and don’ts in your first date it might really determine how loving your woman will be toward you after the date.

I’m not saying you should dress very expensive [though you can if you want to] but appearing too casual might not be the best for your first date. What you need to do is to dress maturedly and elegantly.

Felix MyJoy is a seasoned relationship coach has authored many books including the best-selling book

STEP TO PLEASURE YOUR WOMAN


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